Slut

I was watching Celebrity Big Brother and it caught my attention… don’t worry this isn’t about big brother but a very interesting subject came up for me on the show this year. 

SLUT SHAMING 

The background of this is a girl called Stephanie who has been caught up in a cheating scandal with a pretty hot male model (my opinion only) whilst she has a boyfriend on the outside. 

Well social media has been in uproar and I have been part of the heated discussions- Nevertheless I noticed that an awful lot of men and women alike are calling her a slag. 

Slag…Slut….Whore….

Why is it that all those words are only ever thrown at women….why aren’t men slags? Why isn’t their reputation called into question? Why are their morals not measured by who they lie down with? 

The sad thing is, quite often it is other women calling them slags, whores or sluts. Why do women want to hurt or tear down other women? It’s the most insulting thing to call someone and believe me people have taken many cheap shots towards me. It used to bother me but now I think it is their issue not mine.

Ironically growing up I was called Frigid and that really used to make me upset so I guess a woman just can’t win!

Isn’t it bad enough that most men see women as walking vagina’s who they can get their end away with. But she is the slag!?! A woman can wear an outfit and be a victim of cat calling and she is a slag. A woman gets raped and people question what she was wearing.

I am neither fazed nor offended by a woman who wants to sleep with half the population; I don’t care if she sleeps with someone different every week. As long as she is doing it because she loves it, wants it and not because she has some warped idea that in some way this will mean the guy in question will fall deeply in love with her. Most of all as long as she is not sleeping with my guy because then its war…. otherwise let her crack on. 

Who are we to Judge, unless your Mother Theresa or Virgin Mary (if you have faith) keep your negative, inequality opinions to yourself.

So ladies as long as you ‘know your own name’ and you are significantly over the age of consent and of sane mind…enjoy sex without guilt and remember: Decent Bra and proper knickers- you can’t go wrong.

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